The couple were reportedly arguing in front of their young daughter Mia at the Hilton Garden Inn hotel in Elkhart, Indiana.
Charlie, 49, and Sandra, 39, were arrested on Friday and released on Saturday.
A court date has been set for August 3.
Antrax is currently on performing on the Mayhem tour, but Benante was forced to sit out due to a hand injury.
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