Most of us felt like Kat Von D and Jesse James‘ romance was a match made in tattoo heaven. But things seemed to unravel quickly without much explanation.
We assumed the douche-bag cheated, just as he had with Sandra Bullock, but we had no idea just what a big fat cheater he is until now!
Kat Von D has just revealed that Jesse James cheated on her with at least 19 women!
In a Facebook post entitled “Thank You, Jesse James”, Kat explains that she’s just encountered the “19th girl to add to the list of people Jesse cheated on me with over the past year”.
The tattoo artist wrote the post as part of healing from their “toxic” relationship.
Kat wrote, “I kept going back and forth in my mind as to what the best way would be for me to release and let go of any residual feelings remaining from that toxic relationship.
All of this may sound petty or immature to some, but I assure you this is coming from a place of pure honesty and love.”
The LA Ink star admitted she thought Jesse James could change after being called a serial cheater during his marriage to Sandra Bullock.
“There was a time when I was confident and excited at proving the world wrong, because I believed so deeply in people’s ability to change for the better. Although this was not a primary purpose in the relationship, I did feel like it would be a positive thing for those who judged Jesse solely based on what they read in tabloids, to see that change is always possible – even in the people who seem hopeless.”
But Kat soon came to realize the sad truth about Jesse James.
Kat explains, “I think it just made me sad today to imagine him still in that dark place – where seeking validation through the attention of women takes precedence over being a good father, a sincere friend, a better coworker, and a happy individual.”
Kat feels the need to explain her reasons for pouring out her heart in the blogpost, stating, “I tried my best to go through all of this without venting, or complaining, or fueling more tabloid mumbo jumbo — but this isn’t about any of that… This is about me making peace with myself, and forgiving myself for making some bad mistakes.”
Kat ends her post on a positive note, writing, “I don’t want to sink into the feelings of regret, or resentment. Because right now, for the first time in my life I have felt regret, (for someone like me, who’s never felt that before, this is hard to say out loud).
“Time is something you can never get back, and what we do with this very present moment is the most real thing we have. So if that’s the lesson Jesse forced me to face and learn by all of this, than all I can say is Thank You. It would be nice to move on now, and kindly thank you all in advance for your support, love, and positivity,” Kat adds.
Kat and Jesse began dating last year and became engaged in January.
They split for good in October…and now we all know why!
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